Comments for Monie in the Middle http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com Just another WordPress.com weblog Wed, 16 Sep 2009 21:21:47 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on I Am… by Veera http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/03/17/i-am/#comment-2160 Veera Wed, 16 Sep 2009 21:21:47 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=385#comment-2160 Hi! I started reading your blog because I found the link on Mia's blog, and this entry made me really happy cause at least I'm not the only one getting all weird-like when I don't get what I want! I don't think know if it's the control thing someone mentioned or what but it's annoying as hell. I'm sorry about your mother. Hi!

I started reading your blog because I found the link on Mia’s blog, and this entry made me really happy cause at least I’m not the only one getting all weird-like when I don’t get what I want! I don’t think know if it’s the control thing someone mentioned or what but it’s annoying as hell.

I’m sorry about your mother.

]]> Comment on Ok. by Jane http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2158 Jane Tue, 11 Aug 2009 19:45:10 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2158 I am more than sorry for your lost Monie. I can not even say that I understand. All I can do is offer my shoulder if you need one to lean on. I am more than sorry for your lost Monie. I can not even say that I understand. All I can do is offer my shoulder if you need one to lean on.

]]> Comment on Ok. by Sha Boogie http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2157 Sha Boogie Tue, 11 Aug 2009 17:15:31 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2157 Hey gurl, my heart still hurts for you, that IS some awful painful shit. So happy that your writing :) Hey gurl, my heart still hurts for you, that IS some awful painful shit. So happy that your writing :)

]]> Comment on Ok. by jameil http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2156 jameil Tue, 11 Aug 2009 17:15:10 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2156 I can't even pretend to fully comprehend what you're going through but I hate that you are. I'm giving you an ehug from afar and hoping you get some comfort from something soon. I can’t even pretend to fully comprehend what you’re going through but I hate that you are. I’m giving you an ehug from afar and hoping you get some comfort from something soon.

]]> Comment on Ok. by dalipstickbandit http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2155 dalipstickbandit Tue, 11 Aug 2009 03:55:59 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2155 Damn girly...I want to say it goes away. I want to say it will be better. The pain dulls after a while. It does. That is what you can look forward to. For years after our mom died, my brother would see her in random places - in the store, in the house...so, its not crazy. Trust me. My dad has been gone for 10 years, come October. I always think about what he would say about things or what stories I didn't hear. The wound is still fresh. It will heal, sweetie. It will. :) Damn girly…I want to say it goes away. I want to say it will be better. The pain dulls after a while. It does. That is what you can look forward to. For years after our mom died, my brother would see her in random places – in the store, in the house…so, its not crazy. Trust me. My dad has been gone for 10 years, come October. I always think about what he would say about things or what stories I didn’t hear. The wound is still fresh. It will heal, sweetie. It will. :)

]]> Comment on Ok. by Stephanie http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2154 Stephanie Thu, 06 Aug 2009 16:34:46 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2154 I understand not being 'back', but i am really glad u wrote this, I was worried about u even though we dont know each other. I lost my sister suddenly 5 years ago and i understand the pain, I wont say i know how u feel because no one can know how u feel but i do get it. I check the site a couple times a week to see if u posted and i'm glad u did. Friends are a blessing during a time like this, im glad u have a good support system, they make all the difference in the world. I'm still praying for u and ur fam...take care. I understand not being ‘back’, but i am really glad u wrote this, I was worried about u even though we dont know each other. I lost my sister suddenly 5 years ago and i understand the pain, I wont say i know how u feel because no one can know how u feel but i do get it. I check the site a couple times a week to see if u posted and i’m glad u did.
Friends are a blessing during a time like this, im glad u have a good support system, they make all the difference in the world. I’m still praying for u and ur fam…take care.

]]> Comment on Ok. by La http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2153 La Tue, 04 Aug 2009 18:06:55 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2153 "It'll get better?" WTF?!?! GTFOH. That is not helpful. My mom lost her mom 4 years ago. She STILL sometimes picks up the phone to call her. And I hate to see how it hurts her everytime. I think what people are trying to say when they so stupidly say that it will get better is that it becomes a very important part of who you are. You may still have those times when you are sad and you cry and that's ok. But there will be times as well when it doesn't ruin your day or completely take you down for the count. *hug* “It’ll get better?”

WTF?!?! GTFOH. That is not helpful.

My mom lost her mom 4 years ago. She STILL sometimes picks up the phone to call her. And I hate to see how it hurts her everytime. I think what people are trying to say when they so stupidly say that it will get better is that it becomes a very important part of who you are. You may still have those times when you are sad and you cry and that’s ok. But there will be times as well when it doesn’t ruin your day or completely take you down for the count.

*hug*

]]> Comment on Ok. by thesecondsixtyeight http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2152 thesecondsixtyeight Tue, 04 Aug 2009 05:32:23 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2152 There really are no words for a time like this. Comforting words can't combat the pain. Not even if you wanted them to. You seem to still have a way to go before things even seem close to normal again. Until then, live your life And remember... There really are no words for a time like this. Comforting words can’t combat the pain. Not even if you wanted them to. You seem to still have a way to go before things even seem close to normal again. Until then, live your life
And remember…

]]> Comment on Ok. by mzinspiredmind81 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2151 mzinspiredmind81 Tue, 04 Aug 2009 02:50:10 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2151 Hi Monie...I've been a lurker for a while now. I just wanted to say your in my thoughts. I know exactly what your going thru. I'm a fellow Buckeye and I just lost my 'mom'(biologically she was my Aunt, my Dad's sister but she raised me as her daughter)...yesterday made it 2 wks ago. This pain that I feel, is unreal. I can barely think straight so I know all to well how your feeling. I keep praying for strength and the day that things will get better. {{hugs}} Hi Monie…I’ve been a lurker for a while now. I just wanted to say your in my thoughts. I know exactly what your going thru. I’m a fellow Buckeye and I just lost my ‘mom’(biologically she was my Aunt, my Dad’s sister but she raised me as her daughter)…yesterday made it 2 wks ago. This pain that I feel, is unreal. I can barely think straight so I know all to well how your feeling. I keep praying for strength and the day that things will get better. {{hugs}}

]]> Comment on Ok. by Tha BossMack TopSoil http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/ok/#comment-2150 Tha BossMack TopSoil Mon, 03 Aug 2009 20:06:42 +0000 http://monieinthemiddle.wordpress.com/?p=426#comment-2150 Keep Ya Head Up like Tupac Babygurl. Keep Ya Head Up like Tupac Babygurl.

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